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Threesome Etiquette

Dear Ask Miriam,

 
My partner and I are attracted to threesomes with other women. We are a het couple who like to play with women, but there is a delicate issue I was wondering how to negotiate. In threesome etiquette, what is the rule of thumb for partners receiving a man’s cum? Should I reserve my semen only for my partner, or could I sometimes ask during prior negotiations to give it to our guest? I’m generally referring to swallowing or on the chest.
 
Best Wishes,
 
Confused
 
Answer:
Dear Confused,
Thanks for writing in. It’s great to hear that you and your partner are open to these new experiences. Threesomes can be tricky – I would recommend you have a conversation with potential threesome guests and see how they feel about your cum. I would generally advise that your partner be the one to swallow your cum. If you’re talking about cum on someone’s chest, your guest could be the one to receive that- talk to your partner first and make sure she’s comfortable with that. You can also talk to your partner about what they would like to do with the guest. It’s important that you’re on the same page. Sometimes these things happen organically and there isn’t really time to negotiate who will do what and that can be great as well if everyone is open to just about anything happening, but you should make sure everyone is comfortable.
 
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  1. Interesting reply. My own feeling the decision about cum has two aspects to it. First the couple needs to agree about what is acceptable regarding this activity. Once they agree then the question is to be asked to the third person about where they want the cum. This means there is no right answer (e.g. only partner swallowing cum.)

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